Why I Stand with Refugees (and How You Can Too)

I don’t know about you, but all the political changes and news headlines about refugees in the last few months have given me a serious headache. But let’s set politics aside for a moment. Can we remember who exactly we harm when we succumb to misplaced fear? The refugees our world is arguing over are not monsters, pawns, nor mere political “annoyances.” They are real people with dreams, passions, skills, fears, and hopes–just like you and me. The one major difference being that they are fleeing war and persecution.

Exactly one year ago I traveled through seven European countries alongside the people photographed below to learn the truth behind this crisis. I discovered the names and stories of every person you see here, and in doing so I learned to see each of them as friends and allies. These are the faces and characteristics of individuals who forever changed the way I view refugee/immigration policy. Their stories taught me the importance of how we treat one another, especially those who are heartsick from long and painful journeys to find peace.

I pray that when you look into the faces of these refugees you will see yourself reflected in their eyes. I certainly do. Read on, or scroll to the bottom to learn how you can practically respond (this includes a 2017 letter-writing initiative for local refugees that you can participate in)!

These are the reasons I stand with refugees.

1.) They are families who love deeply and want the best for their children.

2.) They are daughters, sons, sisters, brothers, mothers, and fathers.

3.) They are men and women who ask, seek, and pray for a safer future.

4.) They are children who can still find a common language through laughter and play.

5.) They are future scientists, writers, architects, mathematicians, heroes or oppressors. It all depends on the opportunity they are given to thrive.

6.) They are future advocates for peace, and defenders of the downtrodden.

7.) They are warm and hospitable to any who cross their path.

8.) They are fierce protectors of their family and children.

9.) They have remarkable stories to tell of resilience and defiance against violence.

10.) They have senses of humor like you and me (duh!), and make silly faces that could melt even the toughest of hearts.

11.) They laugh and cry, the same as you and I (again, duh).

12.) They long for people to look them in the eye and see them once again as human.

13.) They are ready to reach the end of their long journey toward peace.

14.) They are tired and lonely, and in many cases feel forgotten.

15.) They are mourning the loss of their children’s childhoods.

16.) They desperately long for stability, especially for their children.

17.) They carry sorrow in their hearts, yet courageously push forward for the sake of future generations.

18.) They are fearfully and wonderfully made, just like you and I.

19.) They are worthy of our love, and not our fear.

20.) They are people I will continue to speak up for, because I know they would do the same for me.

If loving refugees matters to you too, get involved! Here are three practical steps you can take right now:

  1. Call your representatives! It’s ridiculously easy. Text your ZIP code to (520) 200-2223 and you will immediately receive a list of your local representatives and their phone numbers. Give them a call, say your zip code, and express your concern to welcome and support refugees (there’s an example of what to say here). It takes 60 seconds and it’s pretty much pain free. BONUS: If you’re weirded out by phone calls, you can Tweet directly to your representatives (way to go, #worldchanger)!
  2. Give! Whether you give to an organization working in the midst of conflict zones, along the refugee route, or on the American side (or all of the above!), let your spending reflect your heart. Need some ideas? Check out these organizations I love and trust: Preemptive Love Coalition, World Relief, World Vision.
  3. Write a letter! After the tremendous response from last year’s #NotForgotten campaign, I’ve partnered with World Relief this year to bring your letters of encouragement and love to local refugees. We’re joining the broader conversation and calling it #RefugeesWelcome. So write a letter welcoming refugees who have recently settled in the United States and I’ll get them to my friends at World Relief Seattle to distribute. It can be a few sentences or a few pages. Get your kids involved too and allow them to get crafty! Share this idea online with the hashtag, #RefugeesWelcome.

Email your letters to:
giselle.gonzales7@gmail.com
Subject Line: #RefugeesWelcome

Mail your letters to:
World Relief Seattle
ATTN: Meredith Seversen
841 Central Ave. N. Suite C-106
Kent, WA 98032

From Greece to Germany: 5 Lessons from the Refugee Route

A few months ago I wrote an article for Nations Foundation about my experience traveling Europe’s refugee route. In light of the tragic events that continue to unfold in Syria, I am reposting this as a reminder of what I learned, why it matters, and why we should be paying attention. The Advent season is one of hope and peace, so read on and discover why I believe refugees are worthy of both–and learn how you can respond.


Imagine this: you are in a massive white tent with 200 people crammed together in rows of shaky bunk beds. The air rings with the sound of multiple languages from men, women, and children all waiting to hear what their futures hold. You walk through the tent’s single pathway and all eyes turn toward you, a young woman with a journal in hand, a camera over your shoulder, and a weight upon your heart. As you head toward a family at the back of the tent one father stops you by placing his child in your way, insisting that you take his son’s photo. He points to the dry cracker in the boy’s hand and cries, “This is all my child has eaten in three days. Please, tell the world what is happening to us!

Now snap back to reality. The scene I just described seems more like something from The Hunger Games than a moment from real life, doesn’t it?

That, however, was exactly what I encountered in a refugee camp in Serbia. And that father’s plea was why I was there in the first place—to hear and tell those stories.

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Let’s Respond: #NotForgotten Initiative

For those of you who have been wondering how you can help refugees in a tangible way, my team and I from the Syrian Circle have a unique opportunity for you! Read on for details.

(UPDATE: See the results from this initiative at the very bottom of this post!)

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Story Feature: A Tale of Two Sisters

“I had a dream to be in school. Then school was bombed—that dream is now gone.”

Meet 19-year-old Malak (left) and 23-year-old Hana (right), two sisters from Yemen who have lived as refugees for nearly half their lives. Malak was only 12 when the sisters lost both of their parents in Yemen… and they have been traveling on their own ever since. From Yemen the two girls went to Syria where they stayed under the care of UNICEF for 5 years as minors. But when the war in Syria forced them to leave, they decided to search for their future in Europe. Continue reading

Story Feature: Beyond the Stereotype of Young Refugee Men

Meet Muhammad Ali and Fahad, two individuals who may help you break the stereotype you have of young refugee men in Europe. They were both students from a small Kurdish town in Syria before they fled the war, and have found themselves unable to get farther north than Slovenia on their journey into Europe.

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When I asked them about their hopes for the future, Muhammad responded, “I cannot think of the future I want—I need to go back to school, I need an education for my future. I like to learn and need to learn new languages. We left because of the war and fled through Turkey’s mountains with no food and no water for three days trying to get to Europe. And now we are stuck here. No, I cannot think about the future.

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Story Feature: A Fragile Escape to Europe

Today at the Greek-Macedonian border we met one Kurdish family with a story so full of emotion that it took mere seconds to cross from laughter to tears. This may not be an easy story to read.

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Back in their town in Iran, life as they knew it came crashing down with the arrival of ISIS. According to the mother of three (two little boys and one 9 year old girl), ISIS was beheading as many men and little boys as they could in order to take the women and little girls as slaves. ISIS took all of this family’s documents before they could flee, but as the mother explained through laughter and tears, she was simply thankful they got out alive.

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The Refugee Route: Our Journey Begins

Our journey from Greece to Northern Europe to meet with leaders and collect stories along the refugee route has begun! We’re one week in, and in case you haven’t been following my daily updates on The Syrian Circle’s Facebook page, let me give you a quick summary.

GREECE has the weight of the world on its shoulders, or at least that’s what it seems like as of February 2016. Between political unrest, suffocating debt, and a massive influx of people, Greece has been having a pretty rough year (and that’s all I’ll say without getting political)—Now to the reason we’re even in Greece: refugees.

The arrival of refugees in this part of the world is nothing new. It has been happening for hundreds of years with one people group or another as wars have been fought and different populations have fled oppression.

However, what distinguishes this movement of people from any other is the sheer scale of it. With over 1 million refugees arriving on European shores in 2015 alone, that number is only expected to increase exponentially as 2016 progresses. One Greek woman explained to me in Athens, “this is not just a tragedy, this is an exodus.”

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Responding to the Refugee Crisis

When I first started my “Seek the Good” project, it began with a dream to find voices that needed to be heard, to put a megaphone where there had been none, in order to pierce the darkness in our world with light–with hope. Something was stirring in my heart to tell meaningful stories  locally and internationally, and now that dream is becoming a reality.  Let me fill you in on what my Spring will look like…

This December I was asked to join a team working to mobilize locals, aid-workers, missionaries, etc. across Europe to care for refugees in the midst of this historic human migration. If you aren’t aware of what is happening across the Middle East and Europe, I encourage you to start paying attention. Ever since the start of the Syrian civil war, over 11 million Syrians have been killed or forced to flee their country  (that is over half of the country’s entire population). Many have turned to neighboring countries and a growing few are turning to Europe for refuge. And it’s not just Syrians. By the end of 2015, Europe surpassed the 1 million mark of people (Syrians, Afghans, Iraqis, etc.) fleeing their war-torn countries and seeking safety on European shores. The video below powerfully represents the humanity of this crisis.

Many of the relief efforts up until now have been slow to start, but full of sincerity in their efforts to meet the complex needs of this migration. Some of the “big fish” in the humanitarian pond like the UNHCR and Red Cross are already working with refugees, but this issue is too big to be left to large (and often slow-moving) organizations alone. In order to meet the immediate and long-term needs of our brothers and sisters moving to Europe, we need a movement of ordinary people, locals, and churches.

That is where the team I’m joining is hoping to step in. Starting in February a small research team and I will be traveling from Greece to Germany/Denmark along Europe’s refugee highway in order to face this crisis head-on.

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Sleepless in Seattle: Caring for Seattle’s Most Vulnerable

A little over a year ago I was walking along “the Ave” (a street known for homelessness in Seattle’s University District) with a friend as we looked for her acquaintance, Eddie Wang. We were meeting up with Eddie that night to talk with the homeless who called those streets “home.” As we passed a local grocery store my friend and I kept our eyes fixed ahead of us, not wanting to engage the homeless men sitting at our feet, mostly because we were two girls and it was getting dark, but also because we were waiting to interact with the homeless until we had a more “official” reason (like walking with the founder of the group, Sleepless in Seattle).

Five minutes passed with no sign of Eddie—and then it hit us. We turned around and, sure enough, he had been sitting with those homeless men outside of the grocery store the entire time… the men we hadn’t even acknowledged. The shame was instantaneous. I can assure you, nothing is more convicting than totally failing to be a good person in your pursuit of being a good person.

But that experience served as a much-needed wakeup call for me to understand homelessness in Seattle, as well as the people working to address it.

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Urban Hands: Giving Meals and Second Chances

Around the corner from a bus stop in North Seattle and down a wide alley is a nondescript white door many walk past without wondering what’s inside. I would have done the same, except on this day I had an appointment with Urban Hands, a nonprofit built around caring for the marginalized in Seattle, primarily by providing meals for the homeless and job opportunities for those in need of a second chance.

I had heard about Urban Hands through my friend Eddie Wang (organizer of the Sleepless in Seattle campaign) and was intrigued to learn the “who, what, and how” behind their use of for-profit businesses to impact the lives of Seattle’s most marginalized. So with my curiosity piqued, they became my first social impact feature for the “Seek the Good” project.

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